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What Counts as Cheating within a Relationship?

Here at Relationship Counselling kent we are often asked- “What Counts as Cheating within a Relationship?” Our relationship counsellors will be inclined to reply   “When you do, say or write something that you wouldn’t want your partner to see, hear or read then you know you are being unfaithful ” Cheating or unfaithfulness is difficult to define because people differ in what they deem appropriate contact or interaction with for a partner to have with someone else.   And to make matters more problematic, many people do not like to define what counts as cheating because by keeping the rules vague and ambiguous, it makes it easier to cheat.  If you don't know what the rules are, you really can't break them – or so some people like to think. There may not be an approved checklist for what qualifies as cheating, but here at Relationship Counselling Kent are some questions you can ask you that might help clarify the issue for you: 1) Even if you’re not sure if you ar

Benefits of Marriage Guidance for Intimacy Problems

Intimacy problems are one of the most common issues are relationship experts see at Relationship Counselling Ashford. We can help you get to the bottom of what is causing a lack of intimacy and help you turn things around. Intimacy can mean a number of things - from sex, to kissing, cuddling or sharing of intimate thoughts. When intimacy becomes a problem it can cause great hurt and upset for one or both parties in the relationship. A lack of intimacy can also be one of the most difficult things to talk about, so often try and deny there is a problem and look to blame other things in the relationship for causing the problems. Before you give up bringing the intimacy back in to your relationship why not give Relationship Counselling Ashford a try? You’ll be encouraged to talk If you don’t talk openly and honestly with your partner and share what is on your mind, neither of you will know what the problem really is or what can be done about it. Our relationship counsellors will ask you b