Relationship Counselling Kent

Here at Relationship Counselling kent we are often asked- “What Counts as Cheating within a Relationship?” Our relationship counsellors will be inclined to reply   “When you do, say or write something that you wouldn’t want your partner to see, hear or read then you know you are being unfaithful ” Cheating or unfaithfulness is difficult to define because people differ in what they deem appropriate contact or interaction with for a partner to have with someone else.   And to make matters more problematic, many people do not like to define what counts as cheating because by keeping the rules vague and ambiguous, it makes it easier to cheat.  If you don't know what the rules are, you really can't break them – or so some people like to think. There may not be an approved checklist for what qualifies as cheating, but here at Relationship Counselling Kent are some questions you can ask you that might help clarify the issue for you: 1) Even if you’re not sure if ...

This could be the year to take control of your relationship and make it more meaningful and happier than ever. Whether it’s listening more, embracing vulnerability or using the help of relationship counselling Kent. Whatever you choose to do, what are you waiting for?! Our couple counsellors at Relationship counselling Kent are here to help you find some easy ways to strengthen the bond with that special someone in your life and make it last forever. Learn to actively listen . Our relationship counsellors at Relationship Counselling Kent regularly find that couples don’t really listen to each other. This is because, when relationships start to break down, we’re often in a rush to say what’s on our mind, to prove the other person wrong. We tend to jump to conclusions about what the other person means by what they are saying or doing. We often personalise things and respond negatively based on our interpretation or experiences from the past. We interrupt, don’t show understanding, oft...